✨Karma, Desire & the Path to Motherhood

So, this Blog Post all about Karma and describes my path to Motherhood from the Karmic point of view.

Spirit Babies - Walter Makichen

“Karma is the force that brings us together lifetime after lifetime to re-create, explore and expand on this feeling of connection.The Karmic forces that draw parent and child together represent their commitment to explore the divine aspect of life.

The bond between parent and child extends beyond this lifetime.It is not limited by time or space.The force that draws a parent and child together is karma – the effects of our past actions.”

So when we think of Karma, you would be forgiven for thinking that its our fate or punishment, but in reality, Karma means action. It’s the movement of energy that is created by how we think, how we feel, and how we behave. When we look at this In the context of Conception and Spirit Babies, Karma isn’t about deserving or earning. It’s about alignment, the way our inner world shapes our outer experience.

The universe responds to who you are energetically, not just what you want !

What this means is, if in your emotional world, you already feel like a mother — nurturing, open, connected, then you’re living in the frequency of motherhood. Spirit Babies love this frequency and choose the mother that's a frequency match.

If you’re in the energy of Wanting, there’s a sense of distance, of "It’s not here yet". Having says: "This is already part of me". This gap can make baby feel out of reach causing feelings of tension, longing, and a feeling of being stuck.

My Own Journey With Karma and Motherhood

My path to motherhood wasn't straightforward at all. It took 7 long years and brought me through two failed IVF cycles and then on a journey of adoption abroad — but this was a turning point for me. Looking back now, I can see that this was part of my karmic path. Adoption was where I began to feel motherhood in my body, holding the little boy that was to be my son.

This changed everything. My womb awakened. My mindset changed. The separation between me and my Spirit Baby dissolved as I nurtured this little baby boy. Adoption was the doorway for me and many others — not because adoption is required for conception, but because my journey needed that experience to activate the mother-energy within me. My first son came to us through adoption. And once that mother-frequency was fully alive in my body, big surprise, my second son was conceived naturally , and I mean immediately— despite been told that I would never have any children. This gap between Desire and Embodiment of the "feeling" of being a mother closed. This is how karma works:

Two paths aligning. Two desires meeting. Two souls choosing each other

Karma Is an Energetic Path, Not a Straight Line

Karma doesn’t follow logic or the path we think we need. It follows alignment, and sometimes the universe takes you on many different paths to get you to your true desire.

It can bring you to unexpected places like diagnosis, IVFs, travel, healing, loss, adoption, surrender — not to delay you, but to prepare you. Your Spirit to Earth Baby is part of this. They have their own timing and their own lessons that their soul wishes to experience. They have their own desire to come through and they don't necessarily come when we want them to.

As Darshna (@consciouswomb) says, "in your feeling state, in your heart and emotions, if you feel like you are a mother already in some capacity, meaning nurturing, you might nurture others, but the way you nurture yourself, you become that energy, and then the spirit baby matches that energy."

And your baby will come to you whether through conception, adoption, or another path. Babies are miracles, no matter your diagnosis or age etc, and miracles happen every day. I am proof !

So, The Lesson Here Is About Wanting to Having

It's simple:

Wanting keeps the dream outside of you.

Having brings it into your body.

Karma isn’t about deserving or earning. It’s about becoming.

It’s the path that shapes you into the mother your Spirit Baby already knows you to be.